Therapy for Children & Adolescents
My approach with children and adolescents is to help them understand what is going on with their emotions so they can enjoy life, make better decisions, and stop worrying so much. Worry or anxiety can cause many secondary symptoms and problems, such as behavioral problems, poor performance at school, low moods, low self-esteem, and irritability.
PARENTING IS DIFFICULT
Some parents worry about their parenting skills. They may feel they should be able to handle all of a child’s problems themselves. In fact, parenting is a very challenging task, and it is quite normal to have difficulties and struggle with children.
HOW IT WORKS
Child and adolescent therapy usually begins with the therapist meeting a child’s parents in order to gather background information. This allows us to understand the problem and determine how best to address it. After an initial assessment, I make recommendations regarding what type and frequency of therapy would be most helpful. This may be individual therapy for the child along with collateral visits with parents to discuss parenting issues, or family therapy. Some issues may be best addressed with a combination of these interventions.
HOW IT WORKS
Child therapy is similar to adult therapy with one major difference. Instead of simply talking about one’s thoughts and feelings, like in adult therapy, children express their experiences through other means such as are, play, or stories. Children’s play tends to reflect their inner experiences. As a therapist, I help children understand their inner emotional world and help them make sense of it so that they may continue their natural development. Adolescents us a mixture of play therapy and talk therapy, depending on their age and issues they need to work through. Whatever they bring in, it is my job to understand the meaning of what they are communicating and convey that to them. This serves to hopefully untie the knots that are causing them problems.
HELP FOR PARENTS
I also often share insights with parents about what I believe the child is going through, so that parents can help their children effectively navigate their child’s struggles. Sometimes parent work involves helping parents understand how family dynamics may be contributing to a child’s difficulties. Parents have often described this as the most meaningful aspect of the work.